So far the road to publication has been a long one, but Theresa Ragan can honestly say she wouldn’t have it any other way. She believes in fate and destiny, and she knows the day will come when she’ll make a sale. Until then, she’s determined to enjoy the journey.

Theresa loves to read everything from Stephen King to Susan E. Philips. Just as her reading tastes span many genres, so does her writing. She’s written medieval time travels, long and short contemporaries, and romantic suspense.
She lives in Northern California with her husband of twenty-two years, their youngest daughter, one Chihuahua and one stray cat. Her two sons live in New York City, and her oldest daughter recently moved to San Diego.
I invite you to enjoy Theresa’s interview. Afterward, if you leave her a comment, you’ll be entered in a drawing for some nice prizes. At the end is a photo of the items I’m giving away.
When did you begin writing, and why did you choose romance?
When I was pregnant with my fourth child I read my first romance novel, A Knight in Shining Armor. The moment I read the last page I had an epiphany in that I knew immediately I wanted to write a novel of my own. Although I didn’t start writing the book until years later, I did begin researching the medieval time period that same week!
I love hearing that you read a romance, decided to write one and did just that. I’m also intrigued by the diversity of your stories. Of the different sub-genres you’ve written, which is your favorite? Do you plan to pursue one in particular from here on, or do you prefer the variety?
I would love to write in all three genres, but in all honesty, romantic comedies are my favorite to read and write since the words tend to flow from my fingers like water from a faucet. Romantic suspense flows more like syrup from a bottle. And it has been a while since I worked on a medieval time travel, but I love writing the fish-out-of-water books (i.e. placing a modern day character in another time period or vice versa.)
You worked as a waitress and legal secretary. You’re a mother of four. Any of those roles could generate story ideas. Where do you get your inspiration?
Ideas are everywhere! I have a passion for brainstorming stories because the ideas are never ending. I took a creative writing class a few years back, and we had ten minutes to write a story about a stick. A lot of moaning and groaning ensued from the other students while I typed a quick three pages . . . all about a stick. Ideas are everywhere (ooops, I said that already). Clear your mind and let the imagination take over.
What would you do if you were a secretary who finds a dead body in the copy room and everyone else has left for the day and there is a killer in the building? Or you’re a kid wandering around New York City for the first time looking for the mother who gave you up fifteen years ago? Or maybe you’re a housewife who just found a dead body in the neighbor’s basement freezer. If ideas don’t pop into your head, read the newspaper or go to the mall and watch the people around you.
Inspiration, IMO, comes from within. I truly believe love conquers all. Through my husband I have been given the gift to see that there are good, strong, sensitive, kind men out there who would give their lives for their children/family. My husbands unconditional love inspires me to write romance novels and to believe in the happily-ever-after.
For years you’ve balanced parenting and writing. Stay-at-home moms are some of the busiest women I know. How did you carve out time for yourself and your writing in the midst of the hustle and bustle of a large family? What does a typical writing day look like now that most of your children are out of the nest?
Now that three of the four have flown the coop, I am ready to conquer the world! LOL. We’ve all heard of authors like Brenda Novak and Allison Brennan who have five kids at home and still manage to be prolific writers. That’s not me. I’m not that great at multi-tasking, but I can say that I am determined and disciplined.
I treat my writing as any professional would. I sit down and write every single day. I write between 3 and 12 pages daily (usually from 9 am to 3 pm). If I have fallen behind on my self-appointed deadlines, I write at night or on the weekends.
You hold an honor few unpublished romance writers achieve: you’re a member of The Golden Network Hall of Gold, an elite group of those who have finaled in the Golden Heart® at least three times. Of the sixty-three who have, you’re one of four to final six or more times. What an accomplishment. What’s it like to wear that prized lavender ribbon at RWA® Nationals so many times? How has being a multiple GH finalist changed your life?
Wow, I feel as if I’m reading about someone else. Thanks! I was not aware of the stats. It took me four or five attempts to final in the Golden Heart the first time. It’s always exciting to wear the lavender ribbon at Nationals, especially the first time. I love my Golden Heart pins and, although I wouldn’t change a thing, I am looking forward to the day when I am no longer eligible to enter the Golden Heart. Only recently have I learned to enjoy the ride and take the time to savor my accomplishments along the way instead of always looking ahead.
Nationals has come and gone. You were one of seven sporting two of those pretty light purple ribbons this year. But this isn’t the first time you’ve been a double finalist in a contest. You were three times before, first in the Golden Pen in 2004. Then in 2007 you took second and third in the Four Seasons along with first and third in FF&P’s On the Far Side. And that’s not all your wins. How does it feel to have such outstanding credits? What role have your contest wins played in moving you closer to your goal of publication?
Finaling in contests can give a writer (that would be me) a much-needed boost! Finaling in chapter contests used to go a long way to keep me motivated. I don’t enter contests very often anymore unless I have a new story I want to try out on readers. It’s a great way to get brutally honest feedback from three anonymous readers/writers.
Six years into your journey, you landed an agent. Then you parted ways amicably after four. You recently signed with a new agent. How did you go about getting each of those agents? Do you plan to do anything differently this time around?
The first time I found an agent was after I decided to stop spending so much time entering contests and use that time to write more books and polish my query letter instead. Right away I began to receive favorable responses and requests from agents. Medieval time travels were a tough sale at the time (at least mine were!)
After parting ways with my first agent, I finished my first romantic suspense and began to write single-title contemporaries. Then I began to query again, double finaled in the 2008 Golden Heart, and sent out query letters to two agents. I received requests for fulls from both and ultimately signed with Kevan Lyon of the Sandra Dijkstra Literary Agency. The only thing I plan to do differently is communicate on a regular basis. Other than that I need to write, write, write so my agent has something to sell!
Yours is a story of perseverance if ever I’ve heard one. To be so close for so long can’t be easy. How have you dealt with the disappointments you’ve encountered on the road to publication? Who or what do you turn to for encouragement?
I used to cringe when people would tell me I was close. I’ve had amazing critique partners over the years who are mostly all published now. I have gone through a number of stages, including a bitter, frustrated stage.
In 2007 I took a four-month break and put my energy into exercising instead, figuring I could control my weight but I couldn’t control my writing destiny. I was biking twenty miles a day, and I lost a few pounds. It was fun, but the writing called to me, and I realized I would never be able to stop the stories from popping into my head. That’s when I decided to just go with it . . . enjoy the ride and yet at the same time do everything in my power to make my dream come true (write and submit!)
I’ve taken the pressure off myself, and I’ve been having a great time ever since. If I write every day and continue to persevere, I know I will be published sooner rather than later. I refuse to give up, and I no longer cringe when friends tell me I’m close because I know they’re right!
What encouragement would you offer other romance writers on the journey?
Enjoy the journey. Love your children even when they suck up precious writing time. Hug your family members often. Give yourself a pat on the back when you final in a contest or finish a book. Celebrate your accomplishments and your writer friends’ accomplishments too. Write the stories that are calling to you. Write every day even if it’s one paragraph! Know the rules but break them whenever you feel the need. Always follow your instincts! Send your work to agents and editors. Never give up. Above all else, believe in yourself!!!! And use all the exclamations you need to get your point across! LOL.
Thank you for inviting me to your blog, Keli. I love reading about other writers, and I feel honored to be here.
It was great to have you here, Theresa. Leaving Nationals was hard, knowing I won’t see most of the women for a long time. But I look forward to seeing you at our Sacramento Valley Rose meetings where we get to hang out with some wonderful romance authors and writers.
Below: Theresa and me at the 2008 RWA awards ceremony. She’s the beautiful blonde.
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Congrats to Anne Barton, winner of the first drawing and Caroline, winner of the second.


August 10, 2008 at 10:42 pm
Theresa,
Welcome to Romance Writers on the Journey. It’s great to have you here. I hope you enjoy your visit.
It was wonderful meeting you in San Francisco. I loved seeing your smiling face as I roamed the halls, and sitting next to you during the Awards Ceremony was great.
August 11, 2008 at 3:31 am
What a wonderful story of perseverance, Theresa. I know it can be frustrating to hear ‘you’re close’ when nothing happens, but in my opinion there’s no way you can be anything but close. Not with those credentials.
You’re obviously a very, very talented writer. I’m not sure which stars need to be aligned for your contract to show up, but I sure hope they line up soon!
August 11, 2008 at 7:10 am
Thanks for having me, Keli! I really enjoyed meeting you at conference.
Annette, congratulations on your recent sale(s)! I want to be you when I grow up.
Thanks for taking the time to comment. Sometimes I do think I am missing that little bit of “luck” factor that everyone talks about. But I am sooo lucky in so many other aspects of my life that I don’t think that could be it.
I just need to work harder and I’m willing to do that, so thanks for your kind words!
August 11, 2008 at 7:20 am
Theresa, wow, I’ve known you 5 years and didn’t know all that stuff
I know just what you mean about the comments about being close. I was “close” for YEARS. It is so hard to enjoy the journey, but I’m glad to see that you’ve found that joy!
August 11, 2008 at 8:16 am
Theresa, I enjoyed learning more about your writing journey. Your perserverance and positive outlook are so inspiring – I know they’ll absolutely pay off!
August 11, 2008 at 8:36 am
What a great article Theresa! I love your positive attitude. Congratulations on all you have accomplished!!!
August 11, 2008 at 8:37 am
Hi Mary! Hi Anne!
Thanks for stopping by and for the words of encouragement. It’s interviews like this and people like all of you that make the journey so enjoyable.
August 11, 2008 at 9:14 am
Hi, Teresa! Somehow, you are one of the people I never got to meet in SF! Darn it! Your perseverance is amazing and I truly admire you for it. I know what it’s like to be “close”, to have people tell you that all the time, and it can be hard to step back and see the journey for what it is. Yes, you’re close, but you also know there’s work to do and you aren’t giving up.
Congratulations on getting your agent! I look forward to reading your books someday — because I know you’ll get there! You have the right attitude.
August 11, 2008 at 9:21 am
Hi Sal! Thanks for stopping by! Sally is one of my very supportive sisters. I have four of them and they have been pumping me up for years.
Lynn, I was sooo bummed I didn’t get to meet you in S.F.! I really thought I would get the chance to meet all the pixies on Friday night. I need to get better at making the rounds. Thanks for the comment because it is nice to know that many of us have been in the same boat. We’re not alone!!
August 11, 2008 at 9:58 am
Hi Theresa and Keli! Wonderful interview, and it was great to sit near you both at the Awards Gala.
Theresa, I bet Keli would agree: it’s a delight to know you, and your discipline and perseverance is an inspiration to everyone who does. I love that you’ve realized your joy in writing. And Eyes on the Prize, ’cause it’s coming!
August 11, 2008 at 10:03 am
Theresa,
My husband and I want to have 4 kids eventually. You give me hope that I can still do that and have a fulfilling career through perserverance! I love how you speak of your family so adoringly. You really do deserve all the best that life has to offer. And you are well on your way to getting it. Congrats on your amazing accomplishments!
August 11, 2008 at 10:13 am
Katey,
I wholeheartedly agree. Theresa is an amazing woman. Her story inspires me, too. I think it’s only a matter of time before we can say, “We knew her when.”
August 11, 2008 at 10:14 am
Mom
Your happy spirit and passion twoards writing motivates me each and everyday to go out in the world and accomplish something I love to do. Also you are a very hot mom and dad is lucky! I love you and miss you!
You are the most amazing mom in the whole world!! I love you so so much! You deserve to be published more then any writer I know and trust me I know A LOT of writers
August 11, 2008 at 10:34 am
Okay, now you all are just going to make me blush and cry and I’m not kidding. RWA has the best people in the world as members. I have never ever in my life met such a supportive group. We all want one another to succeed and every time we learn of a new sale we know it’s a good thing because editors are still buying and publishing brand new authors. I’m rooting for everyone out there with a dream. You can do it! We all can!
Thanks, Katey. Katey is a life coach and she coaches and inspires writers, especially me! I had the pleasure of rooming with Katey and Caroline. They were both always smiling, always rooting me onward. Thanks, Katey!
Keli has gone out of her way to make me feel special since the moment the finalists were announced. She never stops encouraging me and telling me to hang in there and we’ve only known one another for a short time.
You’re all amazing and I feel so lucky to be a part of this organization. I’m feeling the love and I can’t wait to celebrate all of our successes along the way.
Kirsten, you are too cute! Your half way to your four kids and you’re already a better mother than me! I know you’ll be able to balance career and motherhood because you’re an amazing person and I’ve known that since the moment you were born. (she’s my niece, everyone!)
Morgan, what can I say?! You crack me up. I love you and miss you, too.
Okay, I need a tissue now.
August 11, 2008 at 10:48 am
Okay, I need a tissue too now. I second all of the above and more. Theresa, you have been with me through thick and thin. You know my every secret. And, you are the reason I’m writing again! I don’t know what I’d do without you. You are very special…and so are your books! I’m one of the lucky ones who has gotten to read some of them. Sooner than soon they will be available for all. Great interview Keli! I so enjoyed meeting you at conference and sitting with you during the awards cermony. You are a doll!
Huge hugs,
Caroline
August 11, 2008 at 11:11 am
Holy cow! I was just going to come by and say how much you rock, Theresa, esp. after reading your story, and now I’m all teared up too.
Morgan, you sound like an absolutely fabulous daughter. As a mom to a little son, I was very touched by what you said. I think what you said your fabulous mom has done for you–inspired you to go out every day and work hard to be a success at something you love–is what we all want. Way to go, Theresa & Morgan!!
And I really needed that reminder about discipline, Theresa, so thank-you for talking about your persistence & sitting yourself down in the chair every day, no matter what.
And of course, remembering to love the writing and the journey, and not get lost in wanting *only* the end result.
Thanks to … everyone, actually!

Kris
August 11, 2008 at 11:42 am
Hi Kris!! Kris and I had the pleasure of talking while we waited for a table at the Cheesecake Factory in S.F.! Boy, am I glad I got to know you. It was soo great to see you go up on stage and get your Golden Heart! Congratulations again and on your recent sale. I know, I know…we’re all winners, but you’re speech was wonderful and I wish I could have recorded it to repeat for everyone here. I am so glad I had the chance to get to know you. Thanks for stopping by and commenting! Hugs.
August 11, 2008 at 1:08 pm
Hey mom great article about you! you will sell when the time is right, keep working hard like the time we put up the fence in the field, i tell that story all the time. love you mom
Joey
August 11, 2008 at 2:19 pm
Ha! Yeah, the fence. If Joey and I can put up a fence then anything is possible! ha! We were digging holes for days. I think it was raining and I was nagging at him because he wanted to give up and I fell into one of the post holes. He thought that was funny.
But we did finish the fence that day…
August 11, 2008 at 2:42 pm
Aww, Theresa, thank you for the kind words. You’re very sweet, and so deserving of all the good things coming your way!
The best part is that what will get you what you want in the end is your amazing perseverance. And for that above all, I’m in awe.
August 11, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Hi all. I waited until my high school senior got home to select the first drawing winner. She’s a math whiz and has a way of randomly generating a number on her pricey graphing calculator if I tell her how many comments were left. It’s lots faster than my method of writing all your names on little slips of paper. Ah. Technology.
And the first of our two winners is the lovely and talented Anne Barton. Congrats!
August 11, 2008 at 4:42 pm
Thanks again, Keli. This has been a lot of fun. Congratulations to Anne for being the first of two winners to comment! Yahoo!!!
August 11, 2008 at 5:17 pm
Hi Theresa;
The other’s all said it well..you have an amazing resiliance and drive that is matched only by your enthusiasm for what we all love…reading and writing romance.
Believe in fate..or “everything happens for a reason” is how I live my life too. In fact it was the theme of the book of my heart, so I’m truly excited to hear you think the same way! And that you write time travel? Too cool!! Girl, we have *got* to talk some more!
I’ve never known anyone who’s finaled in as many contests as you, so I’m in total and complete awe. And when the day comes that you trade them all in for a sale, you’ll have it all sweetheart…and there will surely be no words to describe the emotions that will sweep thru you.
Hugs!
Jeanette
August 11, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Thanks so much, Jeanette! Yes! Everything happens for a reason. We just have to go with it… We do need to talk!
August 11, 2008 at 9:06 pm
Hi Theresa, congratulations on your many accomplishments. It was wonderful to meet you in SF, and you make a great bodyguard!
~scared suburban girl
August 11, 2008 at 10:11 pm
Hello again. Thanks to everyone who visited and left a comment for Theresa. It’s easy to see what an awesome woman she is and how deeply she’s impacted and enriched your lives.
And now, the second winner. Caroline, that would be you. Congrats!
August 11, 2008 at 11:06 pm
Hi Theresa,
Thank you for sharing your amazing story. Huge congrats on all your writing success!
August 12, 2008 at 5:48 am
Avery, I had a great time at dinner with you and then keeping you safe on the streets of S.F. Avery and I had to walk a little out of our way in S.F. and it was dark and late and I tried to convince Avery that I would kick anyone’s butt who came near us.
August 12, 2008 at 5:52 am
Hi Carla! It was great meeting you at conference in S.F. although we didn’t get a chance to talk much. I hear nothing but wonderful things about you and I loved reading your interview with Keli. Thanks for stopping by to comment.
August 12, 2008 at 8:17 am
Hey Theresa! I’m sorry I’m late to the party…my internet wouldn’t work ALL DAY yesterday. *head desk*
What a wonderful interview. You are so positive and inspirational and I love the advice to enjoy the journey. Sometimes that gets lost in the pressure (mostly self-induced!). =)
August 12, 2008 at 10:23 am
Hi CJ! Thanks for coming by. You are exactly right. That IS what’s so crazy…that we put all this pressure and angst on ourselves! It’s all in our minds… We just need to do our best and enjoy the ride while we’re doing it.
August 12, 2008 at 7:49 pm
Hi, Theresa! What a great story! I hope we meet up again in DC. I still laugh when I think about all of the sugar we consumed at the reception after the awards ceremony. I ate way too much, but it was fun.
August 13, 2008 at 7:46 am
Hi, Denise! How fun was award’s night??!!!! I hadn’t had sugar in three months and then boom, we ate a year’s worth of desserts!!! Yummy. Those eclairs were amazing.
We must do that again next year. I wish we had taken pictures together… never enough pictures.
August 24, 2008 at 7:14 am
Theresa, Your interview was inspirational; I could really feel your positive attitude and perseverance. Your comments are almost as delightful as your books. Love you, Cathy
August 24, 2008 at 9:42 am
Thanks, Cathy. You’re very sweet to say so…Surrounding myself around encouraging, supportive, positive people is the best way to a happy fulfilling life! Love you, too!