The Victorians were quite romantic. Every etiquette book written in the period that I’ve seen includes a chapter on writing love letters, for example.
Love letters, however, were only one way young Victorians conveyed romantic messages, which could be difficult to deliver in person due to the ever-present chaperones. Couples used other means to express their feelings, such as flowers, calling cards, and gifts.
Only when a couple was officially courting could a gentleman offer his ladylove jewelry. One item he might have given her was a ring, perhaps a very special kind of ring, one that oozed romance. These rings spelled out words using the first letter of each gemstone.
The most popular ring of this kind was the Regard Ring pictured above, a replica sold by The London Victorian Ring Co. Can you name the five different gemstones used to spell R-E-G-A-R-D? Note that the stone used for the R’s was the same type.
Another ring given by gentleman to their ladies to express their love, although not as often as the Regard Ring, was a Dearest Ring.
Using the picture of the ring above, sold by the same company, can you give the name of the six stones used to spell D-E-A-R-E-S-T? Note that the type of gemstone used for the two E’s was the same. Since four of the stones are also used in the Regard Ring, you only need to come up with two new ones.
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Update and Answer
The gemstones used for the Regard Ring were:
Ruby
Emerald
Garnet
Amethyst
Ruby
Diamond
The gemstones used for the Dearest Ring were:
Diamond
Emerald
Amethyst
Ruby
Emerald
Sapphire
Topaz







What a cool idea for a ring! Love it!
My guess is: Diamond, Emerald, Amethyst, Ruby, Emerald, Sapphire, and Topaz
Diamond, Emerald, Amethyst, Ruby, Emerald, Sapphire and I can’t tell if that’s a Topaz or Tourmaline or Tiger’s eye…I need a closer look!
diamond
emerald
amethyst
ruby
emerald
sapphire
topaz
That was fun! Got them right. Similar to “Mother’s Ring” with children’s birthstones. Wonder if it originated from this. What a neat idea!
Aw, bringing back sweet memories…my dad bought my mom one of these for one of their anniversaries.
~ Wendy
Ruby Diamond
Emerald Emerald
Garnet Amethyst
Amethyst Ruby
Ruby Emerald
Diamond Sapphire
Topaz
Ok, the formatting didn’t come out right on this one. I had made two columns but they disappeared
I’m in ring envy! That would go with every single outfit.
Let’s see: diamond, emerald, tanzanite, tourmaline, amethyst, sapphire, citrine
How fun!! What a cool idea.
R: Ruby
E: Emerald
G: Garnet
A: Amethyst
D: Diamond
S in DEAREST: Sapphire
T: Uh, topaz is the only T stone I know…
Sapphire and Topaz are the missing ones. Too easy, Miss Keli.
Patricia Rickrode
w/a Jansen Schmidt
Keli, I came in too late and was about to agree with Lane Hill House and then she wrote that it was correct. I am so intrigued with learning about the Victorians. Although I knew they were different, I had no idea of the depth of their customs. Thanks for another “lesson.”